8 Weeks

Today I am 8 weeks pregnant!  That's 2 months.  Hooray!  As I pondered over this past week I thought, "How am I going to write about this week and stay true to my blog's title.  I honestly don't know how to take a positive spin on what was an awful week."  I spent a lot of time becoming intimately acquainted with my toilet bowl.  I felt miserable.  I was dehydrated, dizzy, nauseas, exhausted, and emotionally overwhelmed.  I lost 5 lbs just last week.  BUT THEN. . . two wonderful things happened.

First of all, I had an ultrasound and got to see my little babe.  When I showed up at the dr. I had no idea they planned to give me an ultrasound and wasn't interested in getting one, but they insisted that in order to see the dr., they had to give me one.  "After all", the nurse said, "we don't even know you are pregnant."  Hello!  Pee test!  Anyway, at first I was upset and then I got over it and just wanted to get it done so I could see the dr.  I'm really glad I did because seeing my baby was amazing.  I could see and hear it's tiny heart beating.  It doesn't even have clearly defined arms and legs yet, but still, something about seeing my baby made me love it.  I felt instantly that all of the difficulty I have had is so worth it.  It was so rewarding to see what all of this sickness is going toward: the creation of a human being!  It blows my mind.

Secondly, after my ultrasound, I visited with the dr. and he prescribed me some meds to help with my nausea and vomiting.  HOO freaking RAY!  I can't stress how ecstatic that makes me.  I took a pill yesterday and one today and so far today has been pretty good.  Am I still nauseas?  Oh yeah, but I actually had an appetite this morning and I was able to eat breakfast, enjoy it, and keep it down.  I am thrilled.  I am very optimistic that this medicine will make things bearable for the remainder of this first trimester until I'm feeling good enough on my own to eat what this baby needs.

So there you have it, still trying to take a positive approach.  :)

7 weeks. . .and counting.

This week has been, to put it lightly, a rough one.  I have felt so so so very sick.  This Sunday around lunch time, my tooth started aching.  It started out a little sore, and within an hour I was moaning and writhing around in pain.  Justin tried calling a million dentists and no one would see me because it was after hours and I was not a patient.  I ended up taking percocet because I was in so much pain.  Anyone who knows me well knows that it must have been serious because I hate taking medicine unless absolutely necessary.  Every six hours on the dot I needed another pill all through Sunday and Sunday night.  The next day, Justin stayed home to watch the kids while I went to see the dentist.  I hurled up both my breakfast and lunch (I know you wanted to know that), and could barely eat dinner.  I'm hoping it was just the after-effects of percocet that made me so nauseas and not just pregnancy because a pregnant girl has got to eat.  At the dentist I found out that I need a root canal and a $1200 crown!  Holy Schneikies!  Basically it was a terrible, awful, no good, very bad weekend.

However, I woke up this morning feeling okay.  I drank a protein shake for breakfast and still felt okay.  I took Jacob to his first day of preschool and still felt okay.  I ate lunch at torchy's and still felt okay.  I went to a meeting, went to the store, and picked up Jacob, and I still feel okay!  Hooray!  I think feeling so awful over the weekend has really put things in perspective for me.  It could always be worse and I'm grateful that I'm only feeling as sick as I am, because I know there could be a million things piled on top of it and today, there aren't.  I'm feeling pretty optimistic at the moment.

I am so so grateful for Justin.  I feel like he's my mommy right now.  :)  He does everything for me when I'm not feeling well.  Grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, child care, making me tea every day, serving me food (no small task when I'm feeling so picky), making appointments for me, doing all he can to get the kids ready for school, scratching my back, entertaining me AND kicking butt at his full time job and free lance work, among other things.  Thank you honey!  I love you so much and can't wait till I feel well enough to return the favor.  I'm also grateful for great friends who have sympathized, cooked dinner, and watched kids for me.  You know who you are.  Thank you!

When things were hard this weekend I had a really hard time focusing on the fact that at the end of this pregnancy, I get to have another amazing child.  Today while I was driving back from Jacob's preschool, I felt so so excited just thinking about how wonderful it is going to be to hold my sweet baby.  It's going to be so fun to see Charity, Everett, and Jacob greet a new sibling.  I can't wait to see how our lives change.  I know things won't be perfect, but another member of our family=more love.  More love is always a wonderful thing!

I lost a couple pounds this week with all the sickness, but the baby bump is still coming along nicely!

6 weeks preggo

Our baby is about the size of a small pea now.

I'm feeling human enough to sit down and type a blog post real quick.  Tomorrow I'll be 6 weeks pregnant.  They say morning sickness is supposed to start about now but, for me, it's already in full swing.  Everything makes me sick.  Good smells, bad smells, any taste, even certain words make me ill.  I'm trying really hard to be positive still and force myself to smile and say how happy I am or how much I love whatever I'm eating.  That helps a little.  The kids are about to start school and I have a million and one things to do so I think I will be sufficiently distracted over the next week to not go completely crazy.  I know that looking back, this time will have flown by.  

I have my first appointment with a midwife tomorrow so that is something exciting to look forward to!   I can't wait to hear a heart beat, see an ultrasound, and ultimately, have my baby in my arms! 

Baby #4 Week #6

I have now completed 5 weeks of pregnancy.  I am really starting to feel pregnant now.  I wake up starving and nauseated and still feeling exhausted.  I have strange cravings and aversions.  I never want to eat chicken again.  Yesterday I wanted to eat freshly cooked pasta with nothing on top.  From lunch till after dinner seems to be my sickest time of day.  I'm bloated beyond belief.  If I relax my tummy completely, I look 5 months pregnant rather than 5 weeks.  I'm exhausted.  I have strange and vivid dreams.  My back hurts.  I have had lots of cramps.  I'm exhausted.  I have heartburn.  I'm exhausted.  Oh, did I mention I'm exhausted?  :)

They say you show sooner with each pregnancy.  I'm living proof.

Justin and I get excited with each new symptom that comes along.  What we've prayed and hoped for for so long is finally here!  We had family come to visit last week and decided that we would tell them the good news but we wanted to tell our kids first so when Justin said our bed time prayer, he thanked Heavenly Father for several blessings, each of our kids, our home, and the last thing he mentioned was that he was grateful that mommy is pregnant and we are going to have a new brother or sister in our family.  Charity was thrilled, Everett was mildly interested, and Jacob didn't seem to understand at all.  Despite their different reactions, when the big day comes, I know they are all going to be wonderful older siblings to their little brother or sister.

We told Justin's mom and sisters, my sisters and Daryl and all of their kids.  Everyone seemed happy and excited!  My side of the family hasn't had a new baby for a while.  Jacob was the last one and that was almost 3 years ago.  We had tons of fun having our family in town although I probably wasn't the best hostess, napping during the day and going to bed early at night.

We are enjoying thinking about baby names and already wondering about our baby's gender.  Charity says she doesn't care if it's a boy or a girl, as long as it's tiny.  Hopefully she won't be too disappointed if I bust out a 13 pounder.  Let's pray that doesn't happen.  :)

I found out from my endocrinologist that my Vitamin D is low so I'm trying to get an appt. with a midwife asap so I can get a good prescription to bring my levels up.  I'll be meeting with my endo once a month during this first trimester to make sure my thyroid levels are in check.

There is soooo much to do before the birth of this baby.  I got rid of all my baby stuff (thinking I was done having kids), so I have to buy everything all over again.  Our car seats 5 and we will soon be a family of 6 so we've got some serious saving to do.  It's a bit stressful to have so much to buy but it's also exciting.  I'm excited to get new maternity clothes and to buy cute new baby stuff.  I'm thrilled to be working toward getting a van with lots of room for our growing family.

Although pregnancy can be rough and feeling sick is never fun, I am thrilled to be pregnant again and hope I can stay positive and create some good memories.

Jacob and I sweating our guts out at Sea World last week.  You can see how thrilled he is.  :)

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After 6 months that felt like 6 years, we are finally pregnant! Today I am a little more than 3 weeks pregnant. Super early, I know. The day before yesterday I used a pregnancy test, not expecting anything at all. I'm probably the pregnancy test industry's best customer. The possibility that I could be pregnant and the excitement that brings always outweighs my desire to be sensible. So, I took the test, feeling 99.9% positive that it would be negative. After the standard 3 minute wait, I looked at the test and saw nothing at first glance. So I kept waiting till the 10 minute mark when I checked it out again. When I picked it up and held it just right in the perfect lighting, I saw a second pink line. It was so so so so very very faint I wasn't sure it was really even there. I did some online research and found that it's not uncommon for an extremely faint line to appear, even when you aren't pregnant. My line was certainly extremely faint. After reading through several forums, I found instructions for how to determine if this is the real deal or not on this website: http://www.amandabears.com/how-to-tweak-a-pregnancy-test.html . It even has a name, "tweaking." I uploaded my picture, viewed it up close, changed the exposure, and couldn't even see the line any more. Bummer. I now felt 100% positive that I was not pregnant. I was no stranger to this feeling and moved on quickly.

The next morning, I got up for my early morning potty break and Justin asked me if I was going to take the other pregnancy test I had tucked away in the bathroom drawer. I felt sure that I either wasn't pregnant or that it was way too early to tell so I hadn't even thought of taking another test. But Justin's question caught me off guard and opened my mind to the possibility of testing again. After he left for work I went about my day but the next time I needed to pee I made a completely impulsive decision to test again. 3 minutes later I checked out the test and this time there was DEFINITELY a line! Eureka! Pregnant at last! I still couldn't believe my eyes and bought another digital test today. In less than a minute my result appeared: pregnant!

Because it's so early on in the pregnancy and because we had such a hard time getting pregnant, Justin and I both feel extremely paranoid and worried about everything. I had believed that it just wasn't possible for us, that we were doomed to infertility forever, that my body was broken and I needed a dr. to make things right before we would ever achieve conception. I feel so grateful to Heavenly Father for allowing just the right circumstances to take place in order to achieve pregnancy. There are so many factors that contribute to a successful pregnancy, so much that can go wrong and so much that has to be just right. It is such great evidence to me that this is God's work. It seems that whenever I feel like God might not be on my side, He proves to me, in a huge way, that He is.

I don't have many symptoms so far since it's so early, but I'm grateful for each one that I do have because it means this is really real and I am actually experiencing pregnancy for probably the last time. I'm tired, I have a big appetite, I seem to have already lost my mind (pregnancy forgetfulness), I mix up words, I get really hot and really cold, I'm starting to notice intense smells, I have some cramps, and I'm seriously bloated, among some other things. I'm excited for things to progress and for my pregnancy to become more obvious to me. I don't feel much different than I did last month other than the things mentioned above.

I'm trying hard to eat well and continue to exercise. I am cutting out refined sugar for the most part (special occasions aside) and focusing on eating fruit and veggies as much as possible. I've been taking prenatal vitamins for several months now so I'm already in that habit.

Justin and I bought a bottle of fancy sparkling peach pop from Ikea a few weeks ago and we've been saving it for this moment. Actually drinking it and toasting to being parents again was a little different than I imagined. The kids were up late and when they were FINALLY all in bed, Justin poured our drink into two mugs and I sat up in bed, toasted, had two sips, then immediately fell asleep. That's pregnancy for ya.

My mind is going a million miles a minute and pregnancy is pretty much all I can think about right now. I'm excited for the actual date my period is due to come and go. I'm excited for several weeks to pass so Justin and I can share the good news with our family. Most of all, I am thrilled to be on my way to having another amazing daughter or son!